BECCAuse i said so.

Halloween Fun Not Just For Kids...

2009-10-29T09:03:00.001-07:00

It's safe to say that making Lorelai's Halloween costume has become a tradition for me. I will confess that for her 1st year, my mom made the costume...but since she was only 4 months old at the time, I don't really feel guilty about that!
Last year I transformed her into a '50's girl with a poodle skirt, and this year, my mom came up with the idea of an autum fairy.
Well, we all know that for about $20 you can turn yourself into anything with supplies from JoAnn's...so here is what I came up with:

The tutus before i trimmed them up...one for L and one for her beloved monkey. I just chose 4 different colors of tulle and knotted them on an elastic band.

Cheap fary wings from JoAnn's.

The wings after a heavy dose of fake foliage, glitter, and glue.

For the hair bow, I made a small rosette out of leftover tulle and surrounded it with three pieces of ribbon...and the ribbon? It was the complementarty ribbon that Aerie ties on your bag...see? Free can be beautiful!

Fall Makes the Best Pictures

2009-10-29T09:03:00.000-07:00

A Too-Late-In-The-Day Trip To Yate's Cider Mill

2009-10-23T04:48:00.000-07:00

I like Michael's Idea of Having Bert In Charge

2009-10-15T04:34:00.000-07:00

I refuse to start this blog off with "Omigosh! It's been SOOO long...we've been SO busy...blah blah blah!"
I'll just cut to the chase.
Cute fall pics...

Kate Gosselin Live

2009-05-14T20:03:00.000-07:00

Tonight I had the privilege of seeing Kate Gosselin speak. (Major thanks to LB for thinking of me and getting FREE tickets to me).
I've been a follower of Jon and Kate Plus 8 over the past 2 years. I'm not the type that tapes every episode and can identify which kid is which, but the show has kept me company on nights when Tim was out of town, and I have immense respect for Jon and Kate. The fact that they are both still alive is amazing enough...add to that the fact that all 8 of their kids still have all their appendages and are fed and clothed regularly and you've just got an amazing amount of work going on between 2 parents.
We all know that Jon and Kate's marriage has been under scrutiny lately...part of me felt badly that she was making an appearance during this time...another part of me wanted to see what was going on...well, you can see which part of me won out. As for the rumors, Kate began her talk tonight addressing them. She said that the only magazine out there with accurate info is People because they actually did an interview with them. Kate kept the talk about that light: "I laugh about it so that I don't cry," she said. I don't remember what else she said about it because instead of sitting there sympathetically listening, I was overcome with star-struck-ed-ness and was snapping photos. Yes I instantly felt guilty, so lets drop it.
I must say that Kate looked WON-DER-FUL. She was sporting a purple knit dress and black peep-toe pumps (in case you were wondering). Apparently the 5:30 am workouts are paying off. I never realized it until my husband said it today...and here is what he said: "If you get to meet her (Kate) tell her that she is HOT!"
Call me strange, but it made me love him more.
For about an hour Kate spoke about all the major events and emotions surrounding her fertility issues, the birth of the twins, the possibility of an adoption, and the pregnancy and birth of the sextuplets. Some things she said I remember exactly from the show...some things were new to me...but one thing is for sure: she was just like she is on the show. She is honest, open, and owns up to the fact that she isn't perfect. She is confident in the person she is. I know everyone isn't a fan of her personality, but tonight confirmed my belief that no one else but Kate Gosselin and her personality could function so successfully in such a unique family situation.
I thought that seeing Kate speak tonight would make my world feel smaller. Have you ever visited a famous place only to find yourself asking "Is this it? It looked so much bigger/ more glamorous on TV!"
People have their opinions about Jon and Kate. Trust me, if you bring up their names, conversation will suddenly start flowing. Save that one in your back pocket for a bad blind date. BUT, I can honestly say, after hearing Kate speak tonight, I have even more respect and admiration for her than before. My world isn't smaller, but I feel smaller. I don't know if I could have what it takes to be Kate Gosselin...to love 10 young children and travel the US encouraging other moms at the same time.
I have to add that when I walked in the door tonight after arriving home, I cried. Part of me feels so guilty for "wanting a piece" of Kate. Isn't bearing the burden of raising 8 kids enough? Who am I that I should expect her to travel hundreds of miles and take time away from her family to tell her story to me? Especially in the midst of her marital turmoil.
I was lucky enough to be able to get Kate's autograph. When Kate took my ticket to sign, I said "Thank you for taking time out to be here. I appreciate it." I can't remember exactly what she said back, something like "of course" or "you're welcome". She seemed tired. I can't imagine why the hell I and the other 300 women in the room thought it was ok to make her sit there and sign our books and tickets...shouldn't we let her go home and relax?
Getting the autograph was no picnic. The venue really should have dismissed us by rows and neatly into a line for autographs...but instead they let us out in one big mob...and then requested that the mob get in a single file line. HA! Those women got pissed, and the thoughts suddenly crossed my mind that I'd rather be in a room full of men than standing there with those autograph hungry women...and why don't we send armies full of autograph hungry women into wars instead of heavily armed men? I'm telling you, those women would be more intimidating...but, i digress.
God Bless Jon and Kate.

The line to the door 15 minutes before the doors were to open.

The lovely Kate

Eat your hear out, Tim.

My mom insisted this was THE bodyguard. I let her have her fun.

My mom gave up her chance at an autograph to take my pic with Kate. Someday the guilt will go away.

Mom and Kate

The Last Mom To Blog About Mother's Day

2009-05-14T10:11:00.000-07:00

All of our family holidays have been full of change this year...but there is one thing that always stays the same...LORELAI! She continues to be the center of attention and always gives me a constant to look forward to. Mother's Day was no different. I love this kid.
Here is a list of my Mother's Day weekend highlights (of course i extend it into an entire weekend...who wouldn't?!?!)

friday: big burgers at red robin, watched half of Goldfinger (young Sean Connery SO HOT!), then off to bed with EAR PLUGS!!!

saturday: slept in until 8:30, tim made french toast, lazy family morning, sipped green tea and read Something Borrowed (while tim and lorelai napped), actually got BORED at one point because we relaxed so much, went to partridge creek to see State of Play, dinner at PF Chang's, finished Goldfinger, then off to bed with EAR PLUGS AGAIN!!!

Sunday: church, NAP!, b-b-q at m.i.l.'s, PRESENTS, then got sucked into studying the stock market for an hour (but that's ok, because i love my husband), then a bubble bath and book :)

I vote to skip Christmas this year and substitute it with another Mother's Day. Don't argue with me...I know where to find some big sticks.

Time To Celebrate

2009-05-07T11:14:00.000-07:00

So, when I started to think about Mother's Day this year, I'll admit my first reaction was some guilt (what else is new?). This year I have really started to dedicate time and effort to getting into shape, trying new things, and having regular girl kid-free girl time. I adore running and my other activities now, but every mom knows that when you take on something new, you feel like you take some time away from your kids. I know for sure I feel this way...take for instance the dream I had about leaving Lorelai at home by herself so that I could go scuba diving.
The thing is, I've learned that taking time out for myself is making me a better person and a better mommy...so, I guess I shouldn't feel guilty!
Ok, I'm convinced, I do deserve to celebrate and get some presents :)
I'm thankful that I have such a happy, adventurous, Sesame Street-lovin' kiddo to be a mommy to. I love hanging out with such a care-free little person.
I am also very thankful for my husband who works SO hard so that I can stay at home with Lorelai and not miss a moment.

Just Because It Has Been Awhile...

2009-04-30T11:48:00.000-07:00

These two pictures were taken about two years apart. Look who has the round belly now! HA! Of course...flat and jiggly is no picnic either...
Anyway.
Wait, can I just say that I just read an article that stated that people who have some wine everyday have the flattest stomachs...even compared to people who don't drink at all. Who says all the news these days is bad?

In Love With Lake St. Clair

2009-04-23T09:57:00.000-07:00

Last Saturday was the 2nd time we took the boat out this year. The conditions really could not have been more perfect! Tim and I sailed around off the coast of metro beach for about 10 miles. Heavenly! The wind was cool, but the strong sun kept us warm.
For Tim's birthday last year I bought him a gadget that holds the tiller in place, so basically you set your course and are free to relax. It worked great! We were able to both lay back on the benches and chill.
There just isn't anything better than being out in the middle of the lake with some chardonnay and nothing to do but listen to the waves. ahhhh! I will miss the boat this weekend!

The best 1st mates always fuel up with a homemade breakfast cookie :)

Captain Timmy who "forgot" to put sunblock on....again!

Best seat in the house.

The view you get if you take a nap on the benches.

Lake St. Clair through one of the port holes.

This Week at Tot School

2009-04-23T09:34:00.000-07:00

Some of the fun things we did this week:

Lorelai had no interest in actually finger painting, but stacking and unstacking the jars kept her happy for 20 minutes. Score!
I'm pretty darn sure she knows her colors, yet she often says them wrong anyway. Is she like partially color blind or something?
Yes, I do realize how stupid I just sounded there.

ok, I came up with this dandy idea all by myself. I called it "Bug Hunt". I want to focus on bugs and nature this spring (and I also scored some cheap bug stuff at the Target dollar spot) so this was a great way to start it off. I went online and found some cute bug pics, cut them out, pasted them on paper, and laminated them. I put them all around Lorelai's room and then gave her a bucket to collect all her findings. She really liked this! Of course the possibilities were endless with the activity. She enjoyed counting each of the bug "tokens". We talked about what each bug was, how they crawl, what color they are, what noise they make...etc. I also had some bugs in there multiple times, so matching comes into play, too. I may also do this again with flowers.

My hope is also that Lorelai won't have a fear of bugs like someone else I know....

Recent Tot School Fun

2009-04-14T10:58:00.000-07:00

So, we have been tot schooling here and there, I just haven't had the time to blog about it. Lorelai is terrible 2-ing, so it makes having an actual school schedule a waste...I just pull out an activity when she seems interested. Sometimes it lasts a half hour and sometimes I just walk away wishing I could move to Jamaica.
At least I am honest.

She finally likes her string bead sets!

Totally copied this idea from another mom...get a container with a small opening and throw some clothes pins (or popsicle sticks painted different colors, etc.) in it. This amuses Lorelai greatly! She loves putting everything in the container then shaking it out.

She loves to paint!

Green play dough for St. Patty's. The web is full of make-it-yourself play dough recipies...don't be lazy! Try it! I did and I don't think I'll ever pay for the brand name stuff again!

We've been working on shapes and colors for weeks now. Play dough is a great way to teach them both. If you watch PBS in the morning, perhaps you have heard that silly Steve singing the shape song: "...line, line, circle, circle...". Well I started singing it with Lorelai and whipping out the shapes at the right time and she LOVES it. Lorelai basically likes anything set to music, so I have been singing TONS!

Easter-Shmeester!

2009-04-13T05:00:00.000-07:00

Our Easer weekend included:
PMS
2 colds
missing someone special
irritations about job changes
a 2-year molar
But, when you mix that all with a heavy dose of easter candy and some relaxation, it all turns out into some fun.
We also took the boat out for the 1st time...forgot my camera though! Too bad, because our trip proved that we really know what we are doing now...we never had to get out the boat manual and I don't think we used ANY 4-letter words. Amazing!

Can You Find a Cuter Belly/ TuTu Combo?

2009-04-10T06:47:00.000-07:00

HaPpY EaStEr!

2009-04-09T06:55:00.000-07:00

Candy, bunnies, toys, family, and fun...our easter weekend has begun...

Timbits...Humorous Quotes From My Husband

2009-03-29T07:08:00.000-07:00

Becca: "I think I would like to have a baby boy some day."
Tim: "Me too. I wish you could just buy one."

A Thousand Words Thursday

2009-03-26T06:12:00.000-07:00

I couldn't help but laugh when Lorelai struck this pose for the camera. It reminds me of an old Barbara Streisand record cover...or Queen Nefertiti...What caption would you give it?

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Wordless Wednesday

2009-03-25T04:15:00.001-07:00

Just because...I don't think I've ever shown off a pic of my preggy belly. I was 8 months along in this pic. We were on our Babymoon in the Smoky Mountains. Just the 2 of us. Our life won't be anything like that again until we are old farts and our kids are out of the house. Oy!

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ecostore Giveaway (#1) Winner!

2009-03-24T05:35:00.001-07:00

According to Random.org, our winner for the ecostore USA Pure Oxygen Whitener is: Ingrid

Yay!

A big thanks to all who entered :)

Aloha Friday

2009-03-20T06:46:00.000-07:00

Got On My Mark, Got Set, and I Went!

2009-03-19T14:35:00.000-07:00

Last Sunday was my very first race EVER!
If you know me, you know this is huge for me. I have always declared that my body is physically incapable of running. Walking has always been my exercise...but, this year I started up my walking sessions on the treadmill and NOTHING was happening. One day I was hamster-ing away on the treadmill and I thought to myself "I'm walking so fast, why don't I just try to run?" So, I did. It felt good...so I made a deal with myself to see if i could run a mile before I turned 27. At the time, my birthday was about 2 weeks away...well, to my surprise, 3 days later I ran a mile. I've been hooked ever since!
I won't say that it has been easy, but something has happened to this chick and I am suddenly declaring myself a runner. (My guess is that pregnancy and childbirth enabled my body to be stronger and awsomer, what do you think?)
Anyway, so, after just a few weeks of running, my cousin suggested I sign up for the Corktown St. Patty's Day Run in Detroit. Lately I just can't say "no" to a challenge, so I signed up....thinking it was a 5K. Two weeks before the race I found out it was actually 4 miles. I got a bit panicky about the almost extra mile, so I stepped up my training.
On race day, I was so nervous! I just wanted a guarantee that I wouldn't be the last one to cross the finish line! LOL! My time wasn't spectacular by any means, but it was a personal record...and NO, I was not the last one to finish! At one point in the race, I just wanted to cry, I was so happy to have challenged myself like that!
A special thanks to my coach (Tim, former high school track star) for being there for me and being my photographer! AND another thanks to my Dad for having THE BEST corned beef sandwiches ready when I got home!

My favorite coach!

Waiting to start the race.

Starting off with a smile.

Just a 1/4 of a mile to go!

My first crossing of the finish line :)

Double Giveaway: ecostore USA

2009-03-19T08:07:00.000-07:00

In my last giveaway, I told you a bit about ecostore USA and their collection of products made with "No nasty chemicals". Well, here is your chance to win more!
A few nights ago, I tried ecostore's Baby Sleepytime Bath. I've tried most of the popular lavender-scented baby washes on the market. They do smell good...but, ecostore's version has got me hooked! Baby Sleepytime Bath isn't actually a wash, but a liquid aromatherapy product that you add to the bath water. I confess that I've been adding it to my own bubble baths every night! It smells SO good AND it makes me yawn!

I also got to try ecostore's Vanilla Conditioner. I've never seen such a light-feeling conditioner repair my hair so well...and the smell? Ahh...I felt like I was washing my hair in a sunny field of flowers. LOL!
So...this is your chance to win some super-pampering stuff!
Just leave a comment to enter...you can win extra chances by becoming a follower or writing about my giveaway and linking back to my post. You've got until March 27th to enter...the winner will be notified on the 30th.
Good luck!

A Thousand Words Thursday

2009-03-19T04:31:00.000-07:00

This is why every other parent in the universe has special plastic plates for their kids. Why did I give her that plate to eat on? WHY???

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Wordless Wednesday

2009-03-18T04:59:00.001-07:00

Waiting for my 1st race to start! An incredible feeling...

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Check out my current giveaway.

Aloha Friday

2009-03-13T04:52:00.000-07:00

An Island Life is hosting Aloha Friday.. I thought it would be fun to participate. All you have to do is answer the question I ask by leaving a comment. Then, click over to An Island Life and link up to Aloha Friday with your own question!

My Question For Today:
What's your favorite thing to do when the kids are asleep and you've got the house to yourself?

My Answer:
Since my husband is gone 2 or 3 nights a week, I am well practiced at this! My favorite thing is to grab a book and a glass of wine and hop in a nice bubble bath.

Let's hear what you think!

...and, don't forget to check out my current giveaway!

A Thousand Words Thursday

2009-03-12T04:47:00.000-07:00

We're pretty sure Lorelai can't see her own feet with that big belly in the way.

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Are you a green momma? Check out my current giveaway...

Giveaway & Review: ecostore USA Pure Oxygen Whitener

2009-03-12T04:08:00.000-07:00

With just about everyone striving to "go green" these days, isn't it thrilling to know that there is a new line of eco friendly products available at your local Meijer? Meet ecostore USA!
ecostore isn't really new per se'...but is new to the US. The company was founded almost 15 years ago in New Zealand. You can learn more about ecostore here. I think their motto says it all: "No Nasty Chemicals".
When ecostore contacted me about a review, the first product to catch my eye was the Pure Oxygen Whitener. We live in a condominium and our laundry room is located in a closet right in our kitchen/ living room. Convenient? Yes! But when I feel the need to use bleach in my wash, most of the condo becomes filled with bleach fumes. Bad for me and bad for my young daughter!
First I used the Pure Oxygen Whitener on my whites and was really pleased with the results. Since you can also use it to brighten colors, I tossed some in with a load of damp and musty clothing from our Jamaica trip- everything came out fresh!
Another thing I really like about the Pure Oxygen Whitener is that less product is required vs. similar "non-green" products on the market...that means more for my money. This is what ecostore has to say on that subject: "ecostore USA knows that it can be expensive to buy natural or organic products, but we've found a way around this by safely super-concentrating each formulation. This means that a little really does go a long, long way. The result is saving money by significantly cutting down on cost per use."
I've got you itching to try this stuff out, don't I? GREAT! Here's your chance to win some! To enter, simply leave a comment with your email address. For extra chances to win, you can blog about my giveaway and link back to my blog or become a follower of my blog. The contest will run through March 20th...the winner will be notified by Monday, March 23rd.
GOOD LUCK!

Wordless Wednesday

2009-03-11T05:04:00.001-07:00

I'm quite sure these are the cutest TV watching positions ever.

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Aloha Friday

2009-03-06T04:31:00.000-08:00

An Island Life is hosting Aloha Friday.. I thought it would be fun to participate. All you have to do is answer the question I ask by leaving a comment. Then, click over to An Island Life and link up to Aloha Friday with your own question!

My Question For Today:

If you could have a girls' night with your favorite girlfriends, what would be the plan for the night?

My Answer:

First, drinks and a movie, followed by a trip to Meijer for snacks and then onto one of our homes for a SLEEPOVER! Yes! It has been too long since I've had a sleepover!!!

Ok! I want to hear about your "perfect night"!

A Thousand Words Thursday

2009-03-05T05:04:00.000-08:00

This photo was taken on the last day of our "babymoon". It still just doesn't seem that long ago EVEN THOUGH in 3 months I will be celebrating Lorelai's 2nd Birthday. Part of me wouldn't mind a "surprise"...but another part of me says "absolutely not". Ahh...the constant battle that is life.

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Mc Problem...Supersized

2009-03-04T06:56:00.000-08:00

OK, I don't usually do this, but you have to read this story. Have you ever gotten this bent out of shape about food? If you are like me, the answer is a resounding "YES!"
I remember when I was expecting Lorelai. My mom had taken me out to lunch at P.F. Chang's. Tim called while we were at the restaurant and I felt guilty that he wasn't there with me dining at the closest thing to Jesus' banqueting table. I love that food with a passion. Anyway, in a moment of guilt, I promised him my leftovers. The next day, Tim ate the leftovers...and when he was done, I started CRYING! I continued to blubber something about "really wanting the leftovers and not actually thinking he'd eat them." This is so funny to me now. We have never shared Chang's leftovers since AND not only are we still married, but we are happily married...COINCIDENCE? I think NOT!
What's your funny food freak out memory?

Wordless Wednesday

2009-03-04T04:27:00.000-08:00

If you ever have car trouble, give Lorelai a call. For whatever reason she has yet to figure out how to drive her Little Tikes car. She is an expert at pushing it, though.

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Tell Me 'bout It Tuesday

2009-03-03T04:27:00.000-08:00

**Tons of thanks to scraps 'n stuff for carrying on the TMBIT tradition while I was away! If you missed her post (it was way better than any of mine) check it out here.)
Welcome back to Tell Me 'bout It Tuesday. Each week I'll post about a mommy hood situation that's got me baffled. This is your chance to show off all your mommy smarts AND get answers to a situation that's got you confused. To participate, simply leave a comment with your smarty pants answer...and if you'd like, include a question in your comment that's got you puzzled. This will be a great time for all us mommies to help each other out and visit new blogs we haven't yet seen!

What's puzzling me this week:
What's your favorite way to clear your head, forget your troubles, and get refreshed?

Leave a comment if you've got an answer...leave your link if you need advice too!

Oh Jamaica...How I Long For Thee!

2009-03-02T05:35:00.000-08:00

Best travel buddy ever!

Ok, pardon my tummy...but this picture is for illustrative purposes...imagine laying in the sun like this all afternoon sipping free chardonnay...hello! Perfection.

Love my birthday gift!

Part of the hotel lobby.

My last visit to "Big Smaddy". They had a pool just for adults!

Yeah, that's right...they were giving massages out there. Didn't get one, though.

Tim couldn't get enough of this boat.

A Thousand Words Thursday

2009-02-26T05:49:00.001-08:00

Sneaking in one last pina colada before the taxi took us back to the airport. I surely was not ready to leave.

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Wordless Wednesday

2009-02-25T05:12:00.001-08:00

Coming back to the dock after my fourth and final certification dive. I haven't been so proud of myself since...hmm...ever!

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Back & Better Than Ever!

2009-02-23T11:22:00.000-08:00

Just in case you missed it, I've been in Jamaica for the past week. This was the second year Tim and I were able to use all the priority club points Tim earns while gone on business to take a winter vacation. What a blessing!
I can honestly say I came back from this trip a new woman! I'm excited to share about what I accomplished while in Jamaica.
The past 2 weeks have been VERY whirlwind-esque for our little family. Four days before we left for Jamaica Lorelai came down with the stomach flu. Two days before we left I came down with the stomach flu so badly that I had to go to see the doctor. Tim fell ill on the plane ride to Jamaica and was ill the first three days we were there. I did my best to enjoy the resort EXTRA those days to make up for Tim's misery. On the 3rd day of our trip we learned that Montego Bay's hospital is quite nice (poor Tim!). And when it was all said and done we were still both able to have TONS of fun and relaxation.
I have so many exciting things waiting for my readers! I'll be doing my best to get back to the daily grind over here.

Going' On A Vacay!

2009-02-14T12:33:00.000-08:00

Sooo...for the next week I'll be in Jamaica. This is my payoff for all the nights my hubby has to be away from home (so don't be TOO jealous!).
Sadly, at this moment I'm finding it hard to be excited. Lorelai came down with the stomach flu on Thursday, and I came down with it 2 am on Friday. It was honestly the sickest I have ever been. I couldn't get to the doctor fast enough. I think a quote from my husband says it all: "You didn't complain this much about labor."
Never again will I skip getting my flu shot.
I'll spare you any of the horrific details.
I was hoping to write up a bunch of posts for you all to enjoy while I was gone, but I'm still not feeling very well.
All I can say is that there will be some great stuff for you all to see when I get back *major wink*
Leave lots of posts for me to enjoy when I get back! I'll get some sun for you all :)

Wondering About Montessori...

2009-02-12T10:09:00.000-08:00

Since my brain alone can't keep up with Lorelai's demands for exploratory/ educational activities, I've been looking for some kind of learning philosophy to follow as I gather activities for Tot School. I've heard of Montessori before, but I am SO not an expert. Any mommies out there have something to say about montessori? Anyone know of a website full of ideas for activities made of objects that I already own ;) ?

A Thousand Words Thursday

2009-02-12T03:00:00.001-08:00

Sometimes, being ahead of schedule is particularly exhilarating. Notice that I'm ahead of schedule with Hal Higdon's plan...do you know how geeked I get when I get to whip out my Sharpie marker and write that I've gone a quarter of a mile over the plan???
I started running a couple weeks ago. I've often stated that "my body isn't made for running", but my New Year's resolution was to get back in shape. I began by walking on the treadmill...but I got to the point where I was walking so fast I thought I'd see what would happen if I tried running again. My goal was to be able to run a mile before my birthday (Feb. 19th)...but as you can see, I've doubled my goal and I still have about a week to go before my birthday! I'm also contemplating participating in a 5K on St. Patty's Day.
I think in the past I have done "too much too soon" with running. I ended up dreading the days I had to run and eventually gave up and went back to walking. This time, I really wanted to fall in love with running. By taking it slowly I've really grown to look forward to the days I run.
It really is true...slow and steady wins the race :)
And you know what else? I haven't lost a single pound! But, I DON'T CARE! I feel so fabulous and that is enough for me to keep up with my plan. Even my husband said that I seem more confident in general. Gotta love "runner's high".
I just thought I'd share this with you all...just incase some of you momma's out there had a New Year's resolution that you've been struggling with. Just remember that it's worth it...and if you have to make changes slowly, that's always better than not trying at all!

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Wordless Wednesday

2009-02-10T12:50:00.000-08:00

Looks like Lorelai's monkeys will provide lots of comfort while mommy is gone for a week.

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Tell Me 'bout It Tuesday

2009-02-10T03:00:00.000-08:00

Welcome back to Tell Me 'bout It Tuesday. Each week I'll post about a mommy hood situation that's got me baffled. This is your chance to show off all your mommy smarts AND get answers to a situation that's got you confused. To participate, simply leave a comment with your smarty pants answer...and if you'd like, include a question in your comment that's got you puzzled. This will be a great time for all us mommies to help each other out and visit new blogs we haven't yet seen!

What's puzzling me this week:
How would you chose to spend your Valentine's Day if it had to be more of a family day instead of a day focused on romance?

Leave a comment if you've got an answer...leave your link if you need advice too!

Weekly Update: Tot School

2009-02-08T10:39:00.000-08:00

This week of Tot School marked the first time I set up a bit of a "curriculum" for Lorelai. I decided that each week I will choose a letter, number, song, movement activity, and something from nature (animal, plant, insect, etc.) to be themes throughout our week. This week we studied the letter "S", number "8", spiders, the song "itsy bitsy spider" and, as our movement activity, the crab walk (which i confess we never got to do!).
Like I said last week, I've been trying to get a CD from the library each week for Lorelai to listen to while we "work". Last week it was music from Mexico, and this week I chose Cajun music. My best description of Cajun music would be that it is country music sung in french! A strange combo. It was neat to hear music we've really never heard before.
I filled one of Lorelai's little IKEA buckets with objects that begin with the letter "S". She LOVED this, so for sure we will do it each week. Even though none of the toys were new, she liked the novelty of picking each of the objects out of the bucket and hearing me pronounce the names of each.

The SSSSSunglasses were her favorite!

We looked up "S" in the Golden Dictionary...

Coloring "S". Ok, so I know that cursive is a looong way off, but at least she's getting the chance to see and become familiar with it (do they even use it in school anymore?)

Later in the week, we took a cue from Scraps 'n Stuff about doing Tot School on the floor. I do everything on the floor with Lorelai except for coloring. I've been wishing we had the room for a little Lorelai-sized table and chairs, but we SO do not. I was starting to wonder if Lorelai would take more interest in coloring and crafts if she was more comfortable at a table her own size. Instead, I simply taped her coloring page to the floor and let her have at it! I really do think it makes it more fun for her.
Another sweet thing I HAVE to say about this pic is that Lorelai learned how to say "beautiful" while she was coloring this picture (of a spider, no less!). I always profusely praise every little scribble she makes with crayons because I am way over-eager to do crafts with her. I told her that her coloring was "beautiful" and suddenly she began (repeatedly) exclaiming "doo-ti-full".

I also started journaling about what we do each week in Tot School. Not only will it give me a resource of ideas to draw from in the future, but I can look at things we have already done and keep our future projects fresh and new.

What a great week! Now, what to do for this week....

Totally Tots Craft

2009-02-06T08:27:00.000-08:00

I saw this craft featured on Totally Tots and I couldn't wait to try it. It's called cookie cutter painting...basically you dip cookie cutters in paint to kinda "stamp" shapes. Since we have a heart cookie cutter I thought it would make a great Valentine's decoration for our house. (Although the thought occurred to me later that you could use any kind of cookie cutter, toy, or shape that could be dipped in paint. Endless possibilities here!)
I LOVE doing crafts, but I just can't seem to grasp the fact that my daughter is NOT ready for them. Ugh! The craft lasted about 10 seconds...I put Lorelai up on my lap, she put a finger full of paint in her mouth, and then ran off.
At least mommy got to finish the craft...it does look cute :)

Thank you, Ladies and a Gentleman!

2009-02-06T06:17:00.000-08:00

I have to write a short blurb about this because it cracks me up:
For "Wordless Wednesday" this week, I posted a pic of my daughter and I...7 of you commented on it.
For "A Thousand Words Thursday" I posted a pic of my husband and my daughter...15 of you left comments.
I guess the votes are in...you want to see more of my swash-buckling hubby on here?

A Thousand Words Thursday

2009-02-05T04:41:00.001-08:00

This one is a family classic...Lorelai's first ride on our sail boat. Tim has always been so proud of this picture. I believe he used the word "perfect".

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25 Random Things About Me

2009-02-04T11:00:00.000-08:00

Since about 25 people have tagged me for this, it's about time I did it!

1. My mom wanted to name me after Shirley Temple, but didn't care for the name Shirley...so she named me after one of the characters Shirley played in a movie: Rebecca in "Rebecca of Sunny Brook Farm".

2. My great grandmother came to America from Poland. Her family hadn't actually planned to send her to America, but, the little girl that lived next door was signed up to come to America. The little girl next door got sick, so at the last minute, the decided to send my great grandma on the trip instead. Talk about luck.

3. I've recently become obsessed with scuba diving and shipwrecks (especially in the Great Lakes). I've even had dreams about it at night.

4. When I have money to spend my favorite things to buy are beauty products and craft supplies.

5. I wish i could join the navy...is it too late?

6. I'm not the fearful person I used to be. I've pretty much lost my fear of the dark and have even started watching scary movies again.

7. If I could magically start living the life of a TV character, I would totally become Dana Scully from The X Files. I think her character would be the most awesome woman ever.

8. Since I hit about 22 years old, I've had a hard time remembering how old I am. Sometimes I actually have to sit and think about it..."Ok, so I was born in 1982, this is 2009..."

9. I look forward to going back to school for a second degree or master's degree once all my kids are in school full time. I think a lot about what kind of career I want to have.

10. Tim proposed to me at The Whitney in Detroit. I knew he'd be proposing soon, but I actually ended up being very surprised because he proposed at the begining of our date. I had spent my whole life assuming that you got proposed to at the end of an evening.

11. I think about the possibility of getting in a car accident every time I get in a car.

12. I used to be really afraid of hospitals when I was younger but now I find them to be fun.

13. I had only met Tim once or twice when I told my best friend I was going to marry him. Too bad she doesn't remember it.

14. If what I want to order off a menu has a dippy name like "Mama's Lusciously Cheesy Ravioli" I will just tell the waitress "I want the ravioli". I hate dippy words that describe food and I refuse to speak them.

15. I eat at the computer quite often. I get crumbs in the keyboard all the time. Now, every time I try to type "5" it comes out like "56". The 5 and 6 key are stuck together. I'm sure it is my fault for eating at the computer, but I have yet to confess this to my husband.

16. I've always wanted to know what it is like to get arrested. I've never done anything to deserve it though, so I guess watching COPS will be as close as I can get.

17. When I'm out with Lorelai, I'm often struck with the sudden fear that I have left her somewhere, that she isn't in the car with me. I'll look in the back seat just to make sure. And no, I have never forgotten her!

18. I'm still upset that I don't have many pics of my college graduation...like pics of me with my family that day. The ceremony was outside and it was very cold and rainy. Everyone just wanted to take off right after it was over.

19. I like shoveling snow. Our condo complex shovels our snow for us, but sometimes I go and shovel our drive before they arrive just because I enjoy it.

20. I love the look of abandoned, run-down buildings. I wish I could spend a few days taking pictures of them.

21. When I was a kid I entered a scarecrow in the Michigan State Fair. It looked like a regular scarecrow except that his shirt was unbuttoned and there was the superman "S" on his chest. I had high hopes, but he only won 6th place.

22. I still vividly remember the night a man came up and stole my mom's purse in front of a Frank's Nursery. I remember that we listened to Paula Abdul's "Cold Hearted Snake" on the radio on the way home. I can't hear that song without thinking about that whole ordeal.

23. I almost never carry a purse or diaper bag anymore. I'd actually buy a man's wallet if I could find one that could hold my jo ann's and archiver's coupons.

24. I actually have a good time when I have to see the gynecologist because we joke around so much.

25. I almost never follow a pattern when I craft...the same goes with recipes and cooking.

Wordless Wednesday

2009-02-04T05:02:00.001-08:00

There's just no better feeling than having a baby asleep on your chest.

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Tell Me 'bout It Tuesday

2009-02-03T08:57:00.000-08:00

Announcing a new weekly post for puzzled mommies: Tell Me 'bout It Tuesday. Each week I'll post about a mommy hood situation that's got me baffled. This is your chance to show off all your mommy smarts AND get answers to a situation that's got you confused. To participate, simply leave a comment with your smarty pants answer...and if you'd like, include a question in your comment that's got you puzzled. This will be a great time for all us mommies to help each other out and visit new blogs we haven't yet seen! Make sure we can link to your blog from your comment (I'm still working on the Mr. Linky thing!)

What's puzzling me this week:
How the heck do your teach your kiddo to drink out of a straw?

Weekly Update: Tot School

2009-02-01T09:40:00.000-08:00

Tot School has been a bit challenging for us lately! I think the novelty of it has worn off for Lorelai (most likely due to the fact that my collection of activities is small right now). I know that Lorelai is on the younger end of readiness for Tot School, too (19 months). Keeping these things in mind, I've been doing my best to tailor our little program to Lorelai's needs. At this point I have found that it is much better to do a couple activities throughout the day instead of sitting down for a 4 activity marathon.
You know how kids are, next week will probably be totally different now that I have got the hang of doing things this way!

This is an AWESOME book...each page has a different letter, animal and adjective. Lorelai loved seeing the animal on each page and watching me dramatically act out each adjective. This book needs to be in your collection!

This was our CD for the week. I like picking out new music at the library for us to try (I'm making a point to take Lorelai to the library every Monday night...eventhough all she does is run around.) I enjoyed the CD...Lorelai just kept asking where Elmo's song was.

We almost make it through the whole bag of letters! Lorelai has really been coming along with recognizing letters. She pointed out the number 5 when we were at the bank and the letter O when we were at the mall this week. Hooray!

I guess you could say that friday was our 1st Tot School field trip. We headed out to see Sesame Street live. Both Lorelai and I had a blast! I can't wait to take her next year!
I've been inspired to set a mini-curriculum by some of you fellow Tot Schoolers, so come back next week to see what I planned :)

Sesame Street Live Was a Hit!

2009-01-30T12:49:00.000-08:00

I'm so blessed (and relieved)to say that Sesame Street Live was a hit!
I mulled over the idea of taking Lorelai to see the show for awhile before I bought the tickets. She ADORES Sesame Street and for sure is Elmo's biggest fan, but I was worried that we would trek down to the Fox theater only to have her be bored and cry.
Boy was I wrong!
Lorelai was a little fussy about waiting for the show to start, but once it did, she was blown away. Actually, when the show first started it started quite suddenly and quite loudly, so she did bawl for a quick second. I think it was a bit overstimulating for her at first, but once she got into the swing of things, she was jammin'! She did her little Elvis hip-shaking moves the whole time, while simultaneously bopping her head up and down. I felt so blessed to know that she was so entertained by the show. She watched every minute of the performance, and when it ended, she stared at the stage for awhile to make sure that it really was over. I really think she would have watched it twice if she could have. I don't know who had the most fun...Lorelai or Tim, Me, and the Grammies! Even when I wasn't holding Lorelai on my lap, I found myself clapping and singing!

A Thousand Words Thursday

2009-01-29T06:17:00.000-08:00

I think they are officially "best friends".

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Wordless Wednesday

2009-01-28T05:35:00.001-08:00

What happens when you tell Lorelai "No more Elmo".

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For All You Blog Experts Out There

2009-01-27T05:26:00.000-08:00

So, I'm getting kinda bored with my blog layout! I could sit for hours messing with the blogger html settings...but, I have a life. Who has some ideas (or websites) where I can get a new layout? It would be nice to be able to display things on either side of my posts also...because pretty soon I'll be adding something new to my side bar (oooh!).

Timbits (Humorous Quotes From My Husband)

2009-01-24T13:25:00.000-08:00

*While watching Sesame Street*
Tim: "Oh, I never knew Bert was a pigeon."
Becca: "Uh, He's not."
Tim: "Then what is he?"
Becca: "A guy."
Tim: "So he's not supposed to be an animal?!?"
Becca: "I'm putting this on my blog."

A Thousand Words Thursday

2009-01-22T04:57:00.000-08:00

She wore her 1st ponytail yesterday..."My little pony, my little pony, love to brush her hair!"

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Wordless Wednesday

2009-01-21T05:00:00.001-08:00

Sharing can be really fun.
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We Love Tot School!

2009-01-19T12:15:00.000-08:00

Over the past week or so I have begun Tot School with Lorelai. You can find out more about Tot School by clicking here.
Tot School is all about exposing early learning skills through fun play. It takes place before your child enters Pre-K. There is no curriculum to buy and the only rule is that it be FUN. All the glory goes to A for introducing me to the idea :)
Not only has Lorelai been loving out Tot School activities, but I have been getting a huge kick out of creating activities and tools that fit/stretch her capabilities and knowledge. Here are some pictures of us Tot Schoolin'...
Music time with some Sesame Street hits:

Number time on our magnet board (thanks to target we got the board, letters, and numbers for a total of $4.50!):

Lorelai loves this color/shape stacker (thanks to buybuy baby we can all get 20% off their selection of Melissa and Doug toys with those never-ending BB&B coupons!):

Puzzle time:

I had fun creating the color cards, word spelling game, and alphabet garland. I even added a "polka dots", "stripes", and "plaid" card to the color cards. Cute!

I really feel that Tot School has renewed my passion for staying home with Lorelai. I'll be posting more about our learning adventures soon :)

A Thousand Words Thursday

2009-01-15T05:11:00.000-08:00

Little did we know that the over-priced monkey we made that day would teach Lorelai to be a fabulous hugger and kisser. Best money we spent last year.
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Wordless Wednesday

2009-01-14T10:11:00.001-08:00

..."baby you're (growing up) much too fast. Little red corvette..."

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What's A Dame To Do?

2009-01-09T10:12:00.000-08:00

I light of my upcoming trip to Jamaica, I have once again begun the task of de-jiggling my trouble spots (assuming it is possible). It probably isn't fully possible in a little over a month, but, some progress is better than none, right?
My program involves using the treadmill almost daily, applying firming cream to my trouble spots, and continuing to eat all the foods I like.
I know these firming creams are essentially snake oil, but they sure make me feel better. Last week I purchased one of my favorite ones and started using it.
Three days ago I broke out in a rash on my stomach that I can't get rid of.
Honestly, it's like my stomach is crying out "please don't try to firm me!"
This is frustrating.
What's a jiggly dame to do? Actually stop it with the chips and chocolate and throw away the lotion?

A Thousand Words Thursday

2009-01-08T10:14:00.000-08:00

I miss it already.

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Wordless Wednesday

2009-01-07T06:52:00.001-08:00

Lorelai doesn't get to see her cousin very often, but it's always neat to see their little relationship progress. On this visit, they learned to hug.

Fun New Things

2009-01-02T04:55:00.000-08:00

i love this sweater...what are the chances it will fit next xmas, too?

how cute are these little hippie moccasins my cousin got for lorelai?

Cheesecake Does Good Like a Medicine

2008-12-26T10:53:00.000-08:00

The last thing I'd ever want to admit is that I could be disappointed about a Christmas day.
So, I won't.
But, i will say that we have a child on our hands who:
1. does not understand what a gift is.
2. after seeing a few gifts opened does not think to herself "huh, there are toys in there...man...this is good!"
3. would rather walk around in any part of the house as long as it is not the room where gifts are being opened.
4. would rather read a used book she got 4 months ago than play with anything mommy gave her for Christmas.
Cheer me up with some memorable reactions your kiddies had, ok?

What's Your Christmas Eve Tradition?

2008-12-24T07:00:00.000-08:00

Tonight before bed we'll be reading The Night Before Christmas. Tim and i have been doing this since we got married. The copy of the book we have is the same one I grew up with. It is actually a pop-up book. I remember having it as a child...opening up the little window on the house when the guys peeks out to see Santa...spinning the wheel above the children's bed as they dream of sugar plums...pulling the tab that makes Santa disappear up the chimney.
The funny this is that I always have to search for the book on Christmas Eve. I can never remember where we left it the year previous! One year we read it in bed and actually left in under the bed until the next Christmas. It was easy to find that time...but this year i started looking for it early, and it is ready and waiting for tonight.
What is your Christmas Eve tradition?

Crazy Lights

2008-12-23T09:35:00.000-08:00

I love Christmas lights...always have...and I totally plan on going nuts with them when we have a house. But, for now, here is all I can do:

There are red lights around our door...you'll just have to take my word for it.
Anyway, there are two places in our neighborhood that have become a tradition for us to visit at Christmas. The first is off of Saal. The decorating spans the yards of two corner houses and includes a collection of every Christmas blow-up made. (The also do a Halloween display, too.) The second is near the Sterling Heights library and is decorated from roof to lawn and also includes music. I don't think all the lights were turned on when we visited it this year, but I can't imagine that the power grid could handle it all being on a once. I counted over 20 spotlights alone. The picture doesn't show it, but when you pull up to the house at night, it looks like it is day time.
And, for the record, I don't plan on decorating our house with the same style of lights!

Taking TIme to Smell the Snowflakes

2008-12-18T11:52:00.000-08:00

The past nonth has been so busy for me, although I can't really say why. Between my scuba class and all the events (and chores) that go along with Christmas, I don't think there has been a day that Lorelai and I haven't left the house at least once.
Until yesterday!
I had my heart set on enjoying the snow with her, and we did just that. Even last winter (when Lorelai was 6-8 months old) we made a point to take her out in her little sled. I don't think she gave a rip about the whole experience, but we were the proudest parents around. One of my favorite things about being a mommy is having the excuse to play in the snow again.

I think we may need a bigger sled next year!

A Thousand Words Thursday

2008-12-18T07:26:00.001-08:00

as the song goes...
"...the prettiest sight you'll see is the holly that will be on your own front door..."
The kid is pretty cute too ;)
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Santa Take 2

2008-12-17T05:35:00.000-08:00

On Monday we decided to take Lorelai to see Santa. To save ourselves some time, we opted to take her to a close-by mall. I won't say where (*cough cough* it rhymes with "steak lied"). I don't want to get into the details, but basically we encountered the worst-behaved employee of 2009. I left in tears and marched my rear over to the mall management office as fast as my feet could carry me and filed a written complaint. If you know me, you know that I am pretty anti-confrontation, so, that should tell you that this was B-A-D.
We had gotten our Santa photos, but Tim and I were NOT happy. The encounter ruined our whole day. I guess most people would just let it go and move on, but I couldn't even bear to look at the pictures. There was no way I wanted those photos be be a part of our family collection (I have yet to upload them or even look at them).
I just couldn't move on until we had the Santa experience Lorelai deserved, so, on Tuesday we set out for Sommerset Mall (where we took Lorelai last year). The experience was everything we hoped for and more. Sommerset doesn't do santa like the other malls. For one, you don't wait in line. When you arrive, they tell you when the next available appointment is. This gives you time to finish your shopping while you wait (and man did I hit a monster deal at the Gap!). All the Santa employees are dressed up in Renaissance outfits to complement the huge castle set. You pay a small fee (which goes to charity) to take your own photos. When it is your turn to see santa, they announce each child's name (with the addition of "lord" for the boys and "princess" for the girls. Sommerset's Santa really must be THE real deal because man, is he jolly. The employees were fab in helping us get the closest thing to a smile we could get out of Lorelai.
Once you are done seeing Santa, they give the kids 3 silver coins. You can then spend the coins at various stores. For example, Pottery Barn Kids gave Lorelai some stickers and Mrs. Fields gave her some cookies.
I know some of you will think I'm silly for placing such importance on Lorelai's Santa visit, but, well, we all have our traditions. I can't really explain why it's so important to me. I will say that we left our second Santa visit feeling like a King, Queen, and Princess :)

A Thousand Words Thursday

2008-12-11T06:33:00.000-08:00

As I snapped this pic, she said "cheese" for the 1st time.
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My Big Scuba Weekend!

2008-12-10T17:28:00.000-08:00

As I stated in my last post, I'm working my way towards becoming a PADI certified open water scuba diver. This past weekend was part 1 of my open water training. On Saturday, I was in the classroom from about 8:30 am to 11:15 am. After lunch we all met up at Oakland University's pool where we had to pass a variety of scuba skills.
Let it be known that I have never been the type to swim laps for fun. I had read in my PADI book (yes, I also had to read a 250 page book and watch a few hours of instructional DVDs before the class) that there would be a swim test before the pool training began. I looked at it with a bit of dread, but figured that since I had already paid (a lot) for the class, they couldn't possibly turn me away, right? I kinda figured it was something they'd skip over anyway.
Wrong.
We started off the pool training with our swim test. I had to swim 200 meters and then tread water for 10 minutes. Thank God above that I was somehow able to accomplish both (because I never had before!).
So, next we suited up in all the gear.

Let me tell ya, all that gear adds up to be HEAVY. Not quite sure how I'll manage to suit up on a rocking boat in Jamaica.
I knew many of the tasks we'd have to prove we could do, and I'll admit that some of them really intimidated me. For example, when you scuba dive, you wear a BCD (buoyancy control device). Basically it is a vest that you can inflate and deflate with the touch of a button (because it is hooked up to your air tank). One of the tasks we had to do involved going to the bottom of the pool, taking our regulator out of our mouth, and orally inflating the vest underwater. Imagine going to the bottom of a pool, removing your air source from your mouth, and blowing up a balloon. Dude, I was kind of afraid I'd somehow drown myself!
I am proud to say that I and my classmate successfully performed ALL the necessary tasks and that our instructor was really impressed with our performance. Yeah!
The scuba training really stretched me much more physically and mentally than I thought it would. I have gained SO much self-confidence and self-reliance that I didn't have before. Knowing that I can take care of myself in potentially risky conditions has been very liberating for me. I can't wait to continue my training. I successfully passed all my quizzes, my final and all my confined water dives this weekend. Next up, I'll need to make 4 open water dives with an instructor or dive master. I'm hoping to do 2 dives in Jamaica in February and do the other two dives in Michigan in the spring (need more training before I can do ice diving).

My instructor, helpers, and classmate were all fab!

A swim team was practicing while we were training...we just swam right under them!

My buddy kept reminding me that "thumbs up" does not translate to "good" in scuba hand signals...it means "ascend". Obviously I hadn't yet gotten the message in this pic.

This was the last task we had to accomplish. Our instructor turned off our air so that we would know what it feels like. He said he has never seen 2 girls last longer with shut off air. Ha!

Class is more fun underwater!

Up Next: Sucba Diving

2008-12-03T10:13:00.000-08:00

Monday was my adventure as a Salvation Army bell ringer. I refuse to write a post about it without the pictures Tim took of me. Currently, my camera is in Mexico, so I will get to it later this week.
Anyway, next on my list of "always wanted to do that" is scuba diving. How I came to desire to accomplish this is a little complicated.
Three or four years ago, Tim and I went camping in the Upper Peninsula of Michigan. I had never been there before and fell in love with the place. If you have never been there before, let me tell you that it's gorgeous...way picturesque!
One of the things I really wanted to do while in the U.P. was to get lost in the woods and have to take a ride from a stranger who lived in a shack in the woods.
Wait.
No...that wasn't it...although that did happen.
What I really had my heart set on doing was swimming in Lake Superior. For the record, They really should rename it Superior Ocean or Superior Sea, because when you first arrive at it's shore, it looks WAY angrier than your typical lake. Twenty foot waves can happen during storms and waves over 30 feet have been recorded. Add that with the fact that the temperature in the lake ranges from 32 degrees in the winter to 55 degrees in the summer, and you've got yourself an exciting experience.
So, one evening during out trip, Tim and I went swimming in Lake Superior. It was awesome. The water was icy and there were some pretty good waves. I didn't know if the lake wanted to spit me out or suck me in.
Once I was hooked on the awesomeness of Lake Superior, I next became hooked on the idea of all the shipwrecks it holds. The Great Lakes in general stay so cool that there are thousands of preserved shipwrecks beneath it's surface.
I began reading books about Great Lakes shipwrecks, but eventually, I got to the point where I wanted to see these things for myself. I mean, Imagine diving 25 to 60 feet below the surface of Lake Superior and coming face to face with a 525 foot steam ship on which 12 of its crew died. And, don't forget that the visibility in the Great Lakes isn't exactly the same as what it is in your bathtub.
The thought kinda scares the crap out of me, too.
So, the other week I was feeling kinda bored and I thought, "What am I waiting for?!? I should learn how to scuba dive!"
I looked up some of the local dive shops and signed up for the open water certification course. My classes are this Saturday and Sunday. I have to read a book, do some homework and watch 2 DVD before then (which is what I really should be doing now). If you want to see me look all awesome in my gear, come to Oakland University on Saturday or Sunday afternoon. I'll be learning scuba diving in the pool!

Season's Ramblings

2008-11-30T09:50:00.000-08:00

Some of the week's highlights:

I finally got a good deal on some sweat suits at Old Navy for Lorelai. This one cost me $16, but we got a second one for $6!!!

Tim's birthday on Tuesday. If you haven't had a poured chocolate cake from Christine's (just north of Hall Rd. and Hayes) then you really have never had chocolate cake. Stop in there for a poured chocolate cupcake!!!

Lorelai loved her cake even more than usual considering the plates.

New slippers for the elmo lover!

Thanksgiving day. Am quite sorry Thanksgiving day was just one week before I must make my debut in a wet suit. Ugh.

My new nephew Braydon! He loves to be chill and smiley.

Tree decorating on Friday.

This picture is deceiving. Lorelai really had no interest in decorating the tree. Instead, she kept bringing books for us to read. Eventually she grabbed 3 ornaments and half-heartedly shoved them in between some of the branches. Two minutes later she walked right into the tree and they fell off anyway.

Our "just right" tree for this year. (Though I am still a bit sad about not having a big tree).
Special thanks to Old Navy for having 1/2 off jeans on Friday that actually fit, Target for having red led lights on sale that make our front door look Christmas-y, for the Charlie Brown Thanksgiving special being on TWICE, and Best Buy for having "Planes, Trains, and Automobiles" in stock.
And, of course, my family for making Thanksgiving so fun :)

Happy Birthday, Tim!

2008-11-25T11:50:00.000-08:00

Tonight, Tim, Lorelai, and I will be having our own little exclusive birthday bash for the birthday boy!
This past year has been a great one for Tim. He has been successful in everything he has set his hands to: sailing, work, and fatherhood. I can't wait to watch him start another year of life.
Love you, Tim.

Nina's Fun Friday

2008-11-21T05:26:00.000-08:00

What would you like to do on your birthday this year?
My next birthday will be in '09, and hopefully we will be in Jamaica like we are planning. I would love to start the day scuba diving, lay on the beach for awhile, come back to the hotel and clean up, enjoy a glass of wine while the sun sets, have a romantic dinner at an outdoor restaurant, then take a stroll by the beach or (better yet) through a marina.

Which Craft (website)?

2008-11-20T15:43:00.000-08:00

Ok. Dumb title.
Anyway, I discovered recently that Lorelai is starting to enjoy coloring. I want to hear from all you crafty mommies:
What is your favorite website for little kiddie crafts and coloring pages?

I Do Love Me Some (fill in the blank)!

2008-11-20T11:26:00.001-08:00

For years I have enjoyed watching the morning talk shows on Halloween. I would start off with Regis and Kelly, then Martha, then (a little bit of) The View. They always do it up big with costumes, contests, and such. Regis and Kelly go through quite a few costume changes and they are usually very good quality! They usually dress up as some of the most famous pairs of the year. For example, a few years ago they were Angelina and Brad, and Britney and K-fed, etc. I don't really remember much of what they did this year because the show in general was crappy.
One thing about the show I remembered was a spoof they did on all the famous TV chefs. Kelly dressed up like Paula Deen and Regis was that mean chef from some reality show (Hell's Kitchen?)with a mouth as filthy as the floors in most Coney Islands.
Anyway, like I said the show wasn't very funny this year, but this particular skit eventually got me. It was the kind of thing that was so stupid that eventually you had to laugh.
If you don't know who Paula Deen is, she's a big-hearted old southern lady with a talent for creating artery-clogging comfort food. I'm not sure that she makes anything without butter.
So, back to the skit...Kelly is dressed up like Paula Deen and keeps saying "I do love me some BUTTER!" She continues on to prepare butter on a stick and a sandwich that was made of 2 doughnuts with a stick of butter in the middle.
Ever since I saw that skit, I often say to myself "Oh, I do love me some (whatever)." For the record, butter probably would be one of those things. Today, it is cake. I think I earned it, too.
I do love me some cake!
Now, you finish the sentence: "I do love me some...."

Paging Dr. Elmo

2008-11-20T11:12:00.000-08:00

Here's how we started out the week without Tim:

This is where we're at now:

Tim left Sunday at noon. Sunday lasted a looong time. Monday was long. Tuesday was long. Wednesday wasn't too long because we hit up the mall for a big sale then came home to get the house ready for some company. Then, today, it all fell apart!
Poor Lorelai woke up with a cold. The only other time Lorelai has had a cold it lasted one day. That was pretty easy. But, I've never seen her nose run the way it is running today. After a short nap she woke up miserable and didn't want anything to do with me. The only thing that got her spirits up and made her want to eat was the Elmo DVD I rented from the library the other day.
Now the DVD is over and we are reaching the end of the extras on it too. Not sure what to do...

Calling All People Who Love To Spread Christmas Cheer!

2008-11-16T13:51:00.000-08:00

My church is feeling the pinch of the tough economic times we are experiencing. I'd really like to be able to bless the congregation with some new christmas decorations.
This time of year is the ONLY time of year that some people set foot in a church. I'd really love to see our church ready and waiting with some festive decorations.
Ideally, I'd love to be able to at least bless them with some new tree decorations and lights. I'd also like to be able to get my hands on some lights and a timer for decorating the outside of the church.
The church does currently have a tree...but it could really stand to be replaced. If you have a used but in very good condition tree or know where I can get my hands on a new one for a fab price, I'd love to hear.
If you'd like to help, let me know!
Just to be safe, I haven't listed the name of my church here...if you want more info you can comment about that, and i can fill you in through email.

I Think I Busted the Cool--o-meter

2008-11-11T06:05:00.000-08:00

On Sunday, I had the opportunity to do something I've been dreaming to do for awhile now- learn how to fire a gun.
Since I had Lorelai, I've come to realize that the time to live is NOW...No more saying "I've always wanted to..." instead, I've been doing my best to accomplish the things that I've always wanted to do.
So, on Sunday, we made a trip out to the firing range at Great Lakes Crossing (bet you didn't know they have one of those at the mall!) for this momentous event. We had some time to wait before it was our turn, so we walked around Bass Pro Shop. I spent most of the time wringing my hands together hoping that I wouldn't chicken out. Once it was time for our turn, I elected to go first. I was so geeked up for this, but upon entering the room where you shoot, I had some reservations. First of all, I'm not used to being around gunfire (go figure!) so every time the other people in the room fired their guns, I jumped about a mile. "How the heck will I hold the gun steady like this?" I wondered. I acclimated my ears while my friend demonstrated the gun I'd start out with- a 9 mm.
Once it was my turn to go, I got myself all set up with the proper grip and stance...but I was so worried that the kick back would cause me to drop the gun! I finally just psyched myself up and fired...and the kick back wasn't anywhere near what I thought it would be.
After I went through my first full magazine (see, I learned some terms, too) my friend asked me what I thought. My eyes went wide. "Yeah, I like this!"
Next, I moved on to a .45. Bigger gun and a little more kick back, but nothing I couldn't handle.
Next was Tim's turn. I looked on while he put me to shame. Does the guy have to be an expert at everything??? Seriously, he hit the bulls eye five times. Well, good for him ;)
I didn't hit the bulls eye at all, but I got closer than I thought I would. That was a big enough accomplishment for me!
I have to say that I am hooked! I will admit that I am still quite uneasy about the power that a weapon holds, but, with much respect, caution, and safety, I think that this could be a fun hobby.
I also have to indulge the kid in me and admit that it was exciting to get a taste of being Agent Scully.

Timbits

2008-11-07T11:37:00.000-08:00

It's been too long...patience pays off. Tim has said some VERY entertaining things recently...but the problem is I forget them before I can post them...and if I ask Tim, "hey what was that word you mispronounced the other day?" he will not tell me, because he knows I want to post it. Arg!
Here's one from last week:
Tim: So, I was telling my friend that Lorelai is going to be a poodle for Halloween.
Becca: *blank stare that says 'you must be kidding'*
Tim: Uh...she is going to be a poodle, right?
Becca: No. I am making her a poodle skirt. I told you this many times.
Tim: What the heck is a poodle skirt?

Nina's Fun Friday

2008-11-07T10:38:00.000-08:00

favorite color?
-pink
favorite candy/ice cream?
-truffles/ cookie dough ice cream
favorite store?
-target and sephora
favorite song?
-no way i could pick one!
favorite restaurant?
-pf chang's
favorite movie?
-ok...it's not technically a movie, but i'm obsessed with renting x files episodes from net flix.

Nothin' Like A Deal

2008-11-06T14:35:00.000-08:00

While Lorelai took her nap this afternoon, I spent about an hour online searching for deals on toys.
Then...
Look what we found in the GARBAGE during our walk this afternoon:

Thanks, Kate

2008-11-05T19:09:00.001-08:00

I was watching Jon and Kate tonight, and Kate perfectly put into words how I was feeling on Halloween. Lorelai was NOT listening to me when I was trying to take her picture and she ended up skinning her knee.
In the episode, one of the boys wasn't listening and ran off from the group...he then promptly fell and hit his head...hard!
Kate: "Sometimes God has built-in punishments."
This one is sure to become a staple in my parenting quotes list.

Proposals...

2008-11-05T18:49:00.000-08:00

I know that the presidential election is the talk of the town...but I haven't heard many rumblings about the proposals that we Michigan residents also voted on.
One proposal was about medical mary jane...Proposal 2 was about stem cell research.
Both were approved.
Regardless of what you believe to be right or wrong concerning each of these issues, there were some SERIOUS issues with the content/wording in each of these proposals.
I am not in anyway stating my concern out of a lack of sympathy for sick people in need of relief or a cure.
I am quite sad for Michigan residents.
At least the veterans of Michigan will be getting an extra 1.2 million, thanks to that proposal passing. God bless them!

I Go Girl

2008-11-05T10:27:00.000-08:00

Since we bought our condo new, it came with many builder's grade items, a.k.a. "crap". One of the first things we decided we would upgrade was the lighting in the kitchen. We have lived here for 5 years...guess what we JUST did this weekend!
I really like doing home improvent projects myself...great sense of accomplishment, money savings, and usually better results. I looked on as Tim installed the pendant light over the sink...but when it came time to install the new track light at the VERY HIGHEST point in our condo (about 14 feet), I decided I wanted a piece of the action.
Don't ask me why, but we only invested in a 6 foot ladder...you'd think with 14 foot ceilings we would have gotten something bigger. So, when it came time to work on the track lighting, we had a bit of a predicament. We solved this problem by propping the ladder up on the 4 dining room chairs. We also inserted planks of wood under the ladder legs to steady it...it still wasn't steady enough, so we also inserted 2 of lorelai's sesame street books under the legs. OSHA would have been proud, huh?
Once our ladder was "properly" rigged, I stepped up on it with the intent of doing a good chunk of the work.
I made it half way up and new there was NO way I could go up any further. It's one thing to stand on a shaking ladder, but to stand up on a shaking ladder on the step that says "this is not a step" AND have to use both your hands to work on something over your head (without hanging on) is a completely different thing.
Ugh! Defeat!
Here is Tim being his typical hero self:

And, just to toot Tim's horn even more, there was actually a point when he stood on the very top of that ladder. Why he never had a stint in the circus is beyond me.
Once we got the new lights installed, we spent 10 minutes going back and forth about how each of the 4 lights on the track should be aimed. I have to admit, it is great to finally have some light cast on our dining room table! Our lighting situation was so shoddy that guests actually started making comments, such as, "I have some lamps in my basement...would you like them?" So, I was geeked to finally have a nice bright fixture!
Tim's respone?
"I had a feeling these lights would be too bright...we need to install a dimmer switch."
Is there any kind of test you can take to see if you are part vampire?
Anyway, regardless of my inability to agree with Tim, I was on board with the dimmer switch idea because I will not say no to ANY kind of home upgrade we can possibly do. We picked up the dimmer switch that evening at Lowe's. It looks quite a bit like this one:

While Tim was out of town last night, the bag from Lowe's with the dimmer switch in it caught my eye. "Hmm...I bet I could install that!"
For the record, I have never attempted any electrical work solo and have minimal training. I figured I'd take a look at the directions to see how in depth the installation would be...and when I saw that they were pretty much on the skill level of a chimpanzee, I dove right in. After Lorelai went to bed, I cut power to the kitchen and got to work. I will admit that for the first 10 minutes, I was really nervous that I'd get electrocuted...but in the end I just told myself that even if I did get zapped, it would happen so fast that I wouldn't even have time to react.
I'm still not sure why that was comforting.
Anyway, we now have a brand new dimmer switch that works perfectly!
I also have a bit more girl power.

Halloween

2008-11-04T11:35:00.000-08:00

Notice Lorelai's skinned knee...she sustained the injury while resisting to have her photo taken. I don't want to sound mean...so, you can just read my mind to see how I feel about that.
Notice also that the pirate in this picture demanded that eyeliner be part of his get up. Wow.

Hmm...let's see...this little girl is wearing a letter sweater and poodle skirt...looks to me like a 50's costume...yet, I still had a guy say "Oh! It's a sorority girl!"
Huh?

We had lots of fun trick or treating...as always. I'm a huge fan of Halloween and I look forward to the day we have our own house...so that I can go so over the top decorating that the neighbors think I'm nuts.

#594

2008-11-04T11:04:00.000-08:00

Tim, Lorelai, and I went voting together this morning. I really looked forward to this as a family event. My parents always instilled in me the importance of voting by discussing whom they were voting for and by taking me to the polls if they could.
We had to wait an hour in line, but, luckily, Lorelai was pretty well behaved. I can honestly say I would have stood in line all day just to color in that little circle for each of the people I hope to see win. I proudly colored in each of my choices on the front of the ballot and then the back...and then I turned that ballot over and colored in my choice for president with extra ink just because I am SO in love with my choice.
Last time I voted for president, I think I went to bed with an upset stomach...I was so worried about what the outcome of the election would be and I felt VERY strongly that my choice was THE proper choice.
There are about 5 hours left until the first polls close in the US, and already I'm sipping on a double strong cup of tension tamer tea. It could also be said that the big mac I had for lunch was comfort food.
Just doing my civic duty.

Having Babies Make Your Hair Curl?

2008-10-31T10:50:00.000-07:00

When I was little, I always wanted curly hair. I totally blame the 80's perm craze. I've always had the thickest hair on the planet...so attempts to curl or perm it were usually disastrous. It would either come out too curly or not curly enough. I actually remember PRAYING to God, asking to have curly hair. Seriously!
As I got older, the whole curly hair thing wasn't as important...the straightening iron became cool and I was proud of the fact that I could easily straighten my (already straight) hair. I still wished for curly hair sometimes though...I had a friend in college with gorgeous curly hair...all she had to do was step out of the shower and throw some product in her hair and she looked like she had just stepped out of the salon! Not fair, God.
After I had Lorelai, I began to have trouble with my hair. It started in the back of my head and started to spread. I couldnt get it to lay flat and it was getting more pouffy by the day.
My hair is now curly! I kid you not!
Something about being pregnant totally changed my hair. I can now step out of the shower, throw some product in, and it's wavy.
It's weird how things work out sometimes!

Master Carver

2008-10-31T10:29:00.001-07:00

For years before I met him, Tim worked in construction. I love having a husband that is so handy...and I love to see how his handy-ness spills into everything he tackles.
When we were first dating, we carved a pumpkin together. This wasn't just your run of the mill pumpkin carving...Tim thought it would be best if we used HIS JIGSAW! Boy was the face on that pumpkin perfect!
We also built a gingerbread house when we were dating. I kid you not, he couldn't build that gingerbread house without a tape measure. I have a picture somewhere of us building that house. For all I know, he probably used a level, too.
This week, we carved our pumpkin. Tim searched the internet for ideas and we settled on a pirate theme. He must have spent OVER AND HOUR carving that gourd! The results were great, though. We can't wait to light it up tonight!

A Few Cool Points For Canada

2008-10-31T10:17:00.000-07:00

Guess what movie was on PRIME TIME TV when I was in Canada the other night?
X Files Fight the Future!

Costume Consensus

2008-10-27T08:32:00.001-07:00

So...I finally decided what to dress us as for a Halloween party I am attending with Tim.
When I was little, I was always allowed to participate in Halloween activities...the only thing that was frowned upon in my family was devil or witch costumes.
We know exactly what happens when something is off-limits for a child: child can't wait to partake in forbidden thing once they are an adult (or earlier, once they know they can hide the forbidden partaking).
I got a fab deal on the devil kit at Jo-Ann's...Im cutting up my black graduation gown to make a spooky dress. I even got the scary makeup!
Greatly looking forward to indulging my spooky side.

Photo Shoot (Me)

2008-10-21T19:38:00.000-07:00

I took these photos of Lorelai a few weeks ago. All I can say is now that she is walking, photography is not so easy. These photos aren't exactly the best I've ever done, and they required me to get very sweaty and Lorelai to start crying.
I still love her bunches.

Who Wants To Be My Halloween Hero?

2008-10-21T19:30:00.000-07:00

Ok....I need ideas for a halloween costume. I am in the process of sewing Lorelai's costume (somewhat annoyed with myself for this...do I always have to be "martha" with this stuff?), so I'd rather not have to do much work...also don't really want to spend too much money either...I've already begun Christmas shopping!
Extra points if you have a costume in your closet I can borrow. *hint, hint*

Yates Cider Mill

2008-10-12T10:43:00.001-07:00

Nina's 6

2008-10-12T10:03:00.000-07:00

Six reason why Lorelai is like her daddy...

1. Lorelai doesn't look like mommy...so...what other option is there, really?
2. Lorelai often declares, "Huh?" after mommy is done speaking.
3. They both get excited when it's time to go to sleep.
4. They both take naps!
5. They both have those Irish smiling eyes.
6. Mommy spends most of her waking hours thinking of them both :)
*Bonus #7...I wish I could have a clone of each of them!

Another Sailing Adventure

2008-10-07T18:22:00.001-07:00

Last Saturday, Tim and I decided to take the sailboat over to metro beach and sail Lake St. Clair again. If you remember, the 1st time we sailed there, there was so much wind we were kinda scared. This time was the exact opposite...there was hardly any wind. It made for a bit of a boring ride, but we still felt adventurous.
This was our 1st ride on the boat in cold weather. I wore long underwear, jeans, a t-shirt, a northface fleece, a hooded sweatshirt, gloves, and a hat. Good thing...because when we got to the boat, there was ice on it!
Tim steered us out of the canal into the lake. We were able to sail for awhile at first, but the wind died out soon after. We turned on the radio and listened to the Michigan State game and ate large amounts of cashews, pretzels, and hummus. I took over at the helm for awhile, too. At one point, i took my blanket up on the bow and laid down. SO relaxing!
When it was time for us to head back in, Tim went to start the engine...it started right up and then stalled. Oh boy. It stalled in gear and was stuck in gear. The auto start button was not responding AT ALL. Not good (but no sailing trip is complete without a touch of potential disaster). Our last resort was to try starting the engine with the pull-cord. Tim yanked the cord and the handle fell off in his hand. This obviously resulted in some choice words...and I was wishing I would have worn the orange t-shirt instead of the gray...because in about 5 minutes I was picturing having to stand up on the bow to signal for help...and having an orange shirt to swing around would really make me more visible.
Somehow we got the darn thing started and motored back to the canal. We took a little tour around the marina. All the boats at the marina were decorated for Halloween and kids were trick-or-treating. We will have to remember that for next year!
ALSO! For the second time, I, BECCA, drove the boat up to the dock FLAWLESSLY! Did I mention that the 1st time I brought the boat into the dock, that a perfect stranger stopped me and said, "Wow, you looked like a professional bringing that boat in." I am NOT making that up either.
My goal was to be able to man the boat all by myself by the end of the summer. I'll say that I am pretty darn close. Tim tested me on all the main points, and he gave me a pretty high grade. We are hoping to take the boat out this weekend, and sadly, it may be the last time this season. I'll write another blog on how I feel about that.

That's Love

2008-10-07T18:20:00.000-07:00

The other day, I was riding in the backseat of the car next to Lorelai. I said "I love you, Lorelai!"
She replied by sticking her finger up her nose.
Love that kid!

Rub-a-Dub-Dub...What's That In The Tub?

2008-10-07T07:03:00.000-07:00

Finally...the moment we've all been waiting...er...fearing for.
Lorelai pooed in the bathtub.
Huge kudos to Tim for donning rubber gloves and coming to our rescue.
Large kudos to myself for inhaling lots of bleach fumes.
No kudos to Lorelai for having her germy-est day yet:
1. fell on filthy mall playground floor and cut lip.
2. Upon returning to mall playground after first aid for lip, proceeded to LICK the playground floor THREE times.
3. Feces bath.

Technical Insanities

2008-10-07T06:58:00.000-07:00

Don't even get me started on Tim's work laptop...
He has had to use our home computer for work which results in me not getting much blogging time. My brain is backing up with unwritten blogs.